I believe falling in love is a subconscious thing. The more and more you spend time with someone the more and more you realize you seem attracted to that person. It's kind of like discovering your favorite song. The more and more you listen to it the more you fall in love with it. You don't choose who you love, love chooses for you. Like cupid, it kinda just strikes, without warning. That's love, it inexplicably just feels right.