Final answer:
A context-specific question about a character named Ha and her family's sponsor cannot be answered without the relevant source material or additional information.
Step-by-step explanation:
The question seems to be related to a character named Ha and her family, who are chosen by a sponsor. Unfortunately, without context from a specific book or story it is to which the question refers, it is not possible to accurately answer where the sponsor lives, nor to describe his and his wife's characteristics as seen through Ha's eyes. Without the relevant source material or additional information about the text in question, providing an answer would require assumptions that may not be accurate.