Emily feels that she and her partner Luke spend too much time together, and she wants more time for her individual interests and activities. Luke feels that they should spend most of their time with each other. The tension between them reflects:___________.
1. differences between desires for doing and talking.
2. tension over autonomy and connection.
3. tension over bonding rituals.
4. differences between desires for expression and instrumentality.
5. none of these.