Answer:
In this case I can describe that Pat and La Mar had been good friends for a long time and they liked talking to each other everyday, but one day pat made a big mistake that would ruin their whole relationship. Vewing from both sides I can interpret that Pat probably didn´t mean to hurt her, and thought that it wouldn´t offend her since thay have been very good friends for a long time. From La´Mars side she interpreted it that he had hurt her badly probably because she wasn´t to comfortable him saying those insultments. In my opinion I think that Pat should of not have said that because they only know each other online and they wont know how the eachother would feel themself or express themself because they dont know eachother in person.