Question

if you are force to be a housewife is it fair for your husband to remind you that he pays all the bill and that those are his sacrifice?

Answer 1

if you are forced into being a housewife, that in itself is not fair, let alone anything after it. becoming a houseful should be a personal choice, not determined by someone else.

paying the bills is also not a 'sacrifice'. its a choice he made, and if he views it as an inconvenience, he should encourage you to work as well.

being forced to do anything is unfair. consent is key, in any and every situation.