Luciana has been dating Xuan for a while. Lately, he has become very critical, telling her that she does not dress up as much as she should, that he is disappointed in her reaction to his efforts, and that she needs to make him a bigger priority in her life by hanging out with her friends less. Luciana thinks that this is a bit much to ask, but he says that he is just trying to work out problems in their relationship. What is the BEST advice to Luciana?
A)Xuan is giving Luciana some meaningful feedback, so she should pay attention to what he is saying if she values the relationship.
B)Some people are needier than others, so it is up to Luciana to decide if she feels like dealing with Xuan’s requests.
C)Working on a relationship should involve both people changing—criticism of just one is likely psychological abuse.
D)Luciana should try doing everything he says. If he complains after that, there is likely a problem.