Question

If you decide to practice abstinence and your partner does not like your decision, what question should you ask yourself? Do I really want to be with someone who does not respect my feelings? Should I change my mind since I really don’t want to lose him or her? Am I being a total drag? Is he or she going to tell everyone my decision?

Answer 1

Do I really want to be with someone who does not respect my feelings?

Answer 2

The question you should ask yourself is do you really want to be with someone who does not respect your feelings. If they can't accept how you feel, then that will cause a lot of problems later on. In a good relationship you must work together and be on the same page.